Mildred Cecelia Gaffaney, 19091964 (aged 54 years)

Name
Mildred Cecelia /Gaffaney/
Given names
Mildred Cecelia
Surname
Gaffaney
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father
18711947
Birth: May 31, 1871Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: July 13, 1947Fergus Falls, Otter Tail County, Minnesota
mother
18801953
Birth: July 29, 1880 42 34 Bangor Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: February 21, 1953Saint Paul, Ramsey County, Minnesota
Marriage MarriageJuly 27, 1904Padua, Stearns County, Minnesota
11 months
elder sister
19052002
Birth: June 11, 1905 34 24 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: August 30, 2002Evansville, Douglas County, Minnesota
19 months
elder brother
19061978
Birth: December 29, 1906 35 26 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: January 3, 1978Stearns County, Minnesota
2 years
herself
19091964
Birth: April 7, 1909 37 28 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: March 20, 1964Moorhead, Pope County, Minnesota
2 years
younger brother
19111973
Birth: June 11, 1911 40 30 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: November 16, 1973Alexandria, Douglas County, Minnesota
2 years
younger sister
19131970
Birth: June 30, 1913 42 32 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: April 3, 1970Anoka, Anoka County, Minnesota
23 months
younger brother
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19152002
Birth: May 17, 1915 43 34 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: August 29, 2002Alexandria, Douglas County, Minnesota
4 years
younger sister
19191982
Birth: January 24, 1919 47 38 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: April 23, 1982Whittier, California
3 years
younger sister
19222015
Birth: February 19, 1922 50 41 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: November 9, 2015Carlsbad, San Diego County, California
23 months
younger sister
19231990
Birth: December 29, 1923 52 43 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: February 23, 1990Hennepin County, Minnesota
Family with Marcus William Flannery
husband
19031980
Birth: March 20, 1903Boulder Township, Linn County, Iowa
Death: July 24, 1980Russellville, Pope County, Arkansas
herself
19091964
Birth: April 7, 1909 37 28 Leven Township, Pope County, Minnesota
Death: March 20, 1964Moorhead, Pope County, Minnesota
daughter
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daughter
19462010
Birth: January 2, 1946 42 36 Fargo, Cass County, North Dakota
Death: January 23, 2010Rogers, Benton County, Arkansas
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Event Description: Calvary Cemetery, Villard MN

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Obituary in the Fargo Forum:
Mrs. Mildred Flannery, 54, of 1449 10 St. N., Fargo, died Friday in a local nursing home. She was born at Villard, Minn., April 7, 1909
Requiem Mass will be at 10 Monday in St. Bartholomew Catholic Church of Villard, with burial there.
Mrs. Flannery was the former Mildred Gaffaney. She taught school before her marriage April 7, 1931, at Glenwood, Minn. She came to Fargo in 1950.
She leaves two daughters, Mrs. Gary (Mary) Bietz, 408 10th St. S., Moorhead, and Patricia A. Flannery, 419 8th St. S., Moorhead; three brothers; five sisters and a grandchild.
Parishioners of the Catholic Church of the Holy Spirit and friends will recite the Rosary at 8 tonight in Boulder and Hughes Capel.

Catherine Gaffaney Becker says:
As a teenager I would spent a couple of weeks in the summers for 2-3 years with Millie and Mark when they were still together [in Moorhead, Minnesota]. They separated in about 1962 or before.
One summer there was a terrible storm. The big old oak tree in Mark and Millie's yard was uprooted and fell on the house next door. I was so scared, I wasn't use having houses so close to each other, I was from the country!!
Another summer I was probably 13 or 14 and I got to go to the city swimming pool û I had probably not seen one before. Millie brought me a two piece swimming suit. It was red, she dared me to jump off the high diving board, and of course I did. I jumped and when I hit the water and went under, my bathing suit top came off and floated away. I never went swimming there again.
We [Catherine and her husband Norbert] moved to the Fargo - Moorhead area in September 1961 from Minneapolis. Millie was working for Dillard's Department store and Mark was Road Master for the Great Northern RR.
Millie and Mark were my godparents and I was with Millie when she died. I had got a hold of Mark, he was working on the railroad. I only lived about a mile from the nursing home she was in, so saw her almost everyday. She had arteriosclerosis so bad. She was trapped in her own body. She couldn't speak or move in the last few months of her life.
The obituary said they were married in Glenwood, but I think it was Villard, because that is were Mark's Family went to church also, his par ents are buried there.

Kelly Sturtevant-Smith says (in our 3-way email exchange): Millie and Mark were separated when she passed. I am mostly sure Mother had moved by then (she would have been 18 and I think she finished High School in Moorhead).
Mother also had hardening of the arteries pretty severely. I don't think it is listed on her death certificate though. Do you remember, Anne? I think there were 3 causes listed. I just remember her surgeon telling us how hard her arteries in her abdomen were. I did not know of any ALS diagnosis in the family. That is news.
I was surprised to see how normal Millie and her sisters looked in her pictures [the ones taken June 29, 1958 on Ambrose's farm that I sent to them]. She always chastised us for our weight and said all of her mother's family were "as wide as they were tall". They look very normal to me. Maybe our values about weight have just changed that much .

Anne Sturtevant: "Mother was 16 and living in an apartment while finishing high school when her mother passed. She told me once that her landlord pretended not to know that she was under 18." [In her subsequent email Anne corrected the age to 18.] I do not believe her death certificate mentions the arteries. But the surgeon was pretty shocked by them. But she as a heavy smoker so it was not too much of a surprise for us." [She's referring to her mother Patricia, who was 64 when she died.]